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Decided to quit but not quite sure where to start? Maybe you are looking for some extra strategies to stay away from gambling. This section will give you some of the tools for quitting.

Wanting to stop

Deciding to stop doing something you enjoy can be challenging, there may be times when it feels impossible but remember lots of people have quit gambling and we can help you.

Do your best to stay away from gambling, the ideal outcome is that you stay away. However if you do revert to gambling don’t get down on yourself. You can always get back on track and use the experience to learn how to stop next time.

It is helpful to know lapses are normal and can happen at any time when you are trying to quit.

When lapses occur, becoming aware of the triggers that lead you to gamble can help you manage urges more effectively in future situations.

To give yourself the best chance of sticking to your new path, try some of our strategies for change.

The urge to gamble

As with quitting smoking, people who stop gambling experience urges to gamble. Urges are an inevitable part of stopping gambling and a natural part of the process of regaining control.

Every time you overcome an urge, you are gaining more and more control.

While you can restrict your exposure to gambling triggers, you will not be able to avoid them completely, which is why it is important to learn ways of managing the urges.

Below are a few different strategies you can try:

Delaying the decision

Delaying the decision to gamble allows time for the urge to pass and for you to feel more in control of the decision. This is different to urge surfing as the focus is on the person using distraction from the urge to gamble rather than letting it pass without distraction.

Distraction takes the focus temporarily away from the urge and can give you time to rethink your decision to gamble.

Try the following next time you have the urge to gamble:

• Relax and focus on staying calm.
• Take some deep breaths to slow yourself down and refocus on what you can do now.
• Try to distract yourself with an activity to keep calm, such as a shower or a bath. Or you may read a book, cook or watch a TV show to stop thinking about gambling. Find an activity that suits you.
• Say to yourself 'maybe I won't go, I will see how I feel in an hour' and then go and do something else.

Remember you may find the urge returns when you stop the other activity. If this happens, perhaps try the urge surfing technique as above.

Set a goal that you can achieve if you stop gambling or develop a list of reasons why you made the decision. For example:

• I will have more money to put towards a holiday.
• I will be able to hold my head up high.
• My family will be proud.
• I will be able to pay my bills.
• As my savings begin to grow money will have value once again.

Staying quit

Remember urges do not usually last longer than one hour.

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Once you have decided to delay the decision to gamble, shift your attention to what you might like to do. It might be something you used to do before gambling became a problem or something you've always wanted to try.

Many people find engaging in sport fulfilling; this could be anything that gets you moving. From a daily walk or run to joining a gym or team sport.

When you feel an urge, do something else immediately and keep the following in mind:

• Limit access to money
• Surf the urge
• Distract from the urge
• Seek support from someone you feel you can trust. You don't have to call someone to talk to them about experiencing an urge. You might just want to ring and talk about something completely unrelated to gambling.

Not sure about what activities you can do when dealing with an urge? Maintaining change and our healthy hobbies blog have some useful tips.

The first time you experiencing an urge subside, without gambling, will be a powerful experience.

People who have slowly overcome the urge to gamble say that their thinking becomes clearer and that they are more confident with each urge they conquer, setting them up to beat the next one.

You can learn to manage urges by being aware of an increased desire to gamble, some people say
an urge is like an adrenaline rush. It can be so exciting and difficult to resist.

Learning to cope with urges when they arise is a crucial component to staying quit.

Think of an urge as being like a wave. Urges can start off as nothing, perhaps a gentle ripple out to sea but as they come closer to shore they get bigger and bigger, until they break.

To stay in control, you need to learn to ride that wave into shore rather than get dumped.

If you are trying to surf the urge it’s helpful to remember:

• It is important to stay with the urge until it passes by itself; this may take up to an hour the first time.
• Each time you resist gambling and the urge subsides it loses its power.
• The more you resist, the stronger you can become. If you give into the urge and gamble that urge takes control again, but you can take control of it next time.

It is important to limit your access to any cash when you begin the process of surfing the urge as money makes the urges more difficult to resist.

If you do experience an urge and would like assistance, you can contact an online counsellor for more information and support.

Problem gambling is defined as gambling that is disruptive or damaging to you or your family, or interferes with your daily life.Most people in the UK gambled or played the lottery in the last year- activities like playing the lottery once or twice a week aren’t harmful. However, for around 9 in 1000 people, gambling becomes a problem or an addiction.

Signs of problem gambling

If you think you might have a gambling problem, help is available.

To start, answer these 10 questions with ‘yes’ or ‘no’:

• Do you spend a lot of time thinking about gambling?
• Are you spending more money on gambling as time goes on?
• Have you ever tried to stop gambling, or cut down on or control your gambling, and not been able to?
• Do you get restless or irritable if you try to cut down on gambling?
• Do you gamble to escape from difficulties in your life, or to cheer yourself up?
• Do you keep playing after losing money to try to win it back – often called ‘chasing losses’?
• Have you lied to other people about how much time or money you’ve spent gambling, or how much you’ve lost?
• Have you ever stolen money to fund gambling?
• Has gambling affected your job, relationships, or home life?
• Do you ask other people to lend you money when you’ve lost money through gambling?

If you’ve answered yes:

• To 1 question – you might have a problem, and it would be a good idea to seek help.
• To 3 questions – gambling probably feels like it’s a problem, and you should seek help.
• To 5 or more questions – it’s likely gambling feels like it’s affecting every part of your life. You should get help as soon as possible.

Effects of problem gambling

While problem gambling itself doesn’t have physical symptoms, the negative effects can appear in many areas of life. These include:

• reduced quality of life – having less money or free time
• problems with your social life – avoiding seeing friends or going out
• physical illnesses caused by spending more time gambling and less time being active, as well as potentially drinking more alcohol
• financial problems – running up debts, and not having enough money for essentials
• relationship problems and conflict at home – this can include arguments with family and friends, or conflict with your partner about financial difficulties
• criminal activity – problem gambling doesn’t make you a criminal, but some people find themselves committing crimes to fund their gambling habit
• unemployment or difficulties at work – if you gamble at work, or miss work due to gambling, it can lead to issues at work and potentially unemployment

Even if you haven’t experienced any of these issues yet, if your gambling is becoming a problem it’s possible these negative effects will happen in the future. It’s important to be mindful of the impact gambling could have on you or your family.

How problem gambling happens

Some people seem to be more likely to develop a gambling problem than others.

Men tend to be more vulnerable to developing a gambling problem than women, likely becausewomen usually gamble less than men.

While a gambling problem can start at any age, people who start as teenagers or young adults can grow into problem gamblers. Children as young as 7 can struggle to control how much time they spend playing video and mobile games, many of which ask for micro-transactions and payments. Older people who feel isolated or bored can also be attracted to gambling.

People who work in casinos, betting shops or arcades can be more likely to develop a gambling habit.

Certain types of gambling can be more likely to lead to a problem than others:

• mobile or internet gambling – like betting or bingo websites and apps
• video poker
• roulette
• dice games
• the stock market
• playing sports for money

Engaging in these activities doesn't mean you have a problem with gambling, but it’s important to be aware that these types of gambling are particularly addictive.

Things that could make problem gambling more likely

There are some factors that can make a person more vulnerable to developing a gambling problem. These include:

• having a mental health condition
• having an alcohol or drug problem
• being in prison
• having a family member, particularly a parent, with a gambling addiction
• a gambling habit that started early – some people start gambling as young as 7 or 8
• having trouble controlling your gambling from the first time you did it, even if you don’t actually gamble very often

This doesn’t mean that everyone in these circumstances will develop a problem, but it’s important to be aware of the risk if gambling is something you do.

Self-help for problem gambling

If you feel your gambling has become a problem, there are steps you can take right away to start improving your situation.

1. Limit how much money you can spend gambling

• Pay all your essential bills, like rent/mortgage, utilities, council tax, food, and childcare costs, as soon as you get paid.
• Set yourself a weekly limit on how much you’re willing to spend on gambling, and be sure to stick to it.
• If you go out to gamble, leave your debit and credit cards at home and only take cash, so you can’t spend more than planned.
• On gambling websites and apps, set a limit on your account so you can’t overspend.
• Talk to your bank about blocking certain websites or locations, like betting websites or casinos.
• UseGAMSTOPto block yourself from accessing online gambling sites and gambling apps. GAMSTOP doesn’t cover every site or app operating in the UK, but you can contact ones you use that aren’t signed up to this scheme and ask them to block you.

2. Reduce the time you spend gambling

• Set a limit on how often you gamble in a week. Be specific and name the days – for example: “I will only gamble on Tuesdays and Fridays.”
• Resist the temptation to open up gambling sites or apps for a ‘quick go’ or just to make one bet – it’s likely that you’ll find it hard to stick to just one.
• Set alarms or alerts on your phone, watch, or computer to remind you when it’s time to close the site or app and stop gambling for the day.

3. Don’t think of gambling as a way to make money

• Remind yourself frequently that gambling isn’t a way to make money – you’re paying for entertainment. It’s not an investment, and you’re not earning money by gambling.
• When you gamble, always prepare yourself to lose. Remind yourself that winning is by chance, and not something that happens more often than losing.
• Never spend money from savings or investments on gambling.
• Tell your friends and family not to lend you money if you ask.

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4. Fill up your time with other things

• Spend more time with friends and family.
• Spend less time with people you know who gamble, or people you usually gamble with.
• Join clubs or social groups that don’t involve gambling – this could be a good time to take up a new hobby, or restart one you haven’t done for a while.
• Talk to friends and family about your situation and your concerns, rather than ‘bottling up’ your feelings.

For more self-help advice and tools, you can access resources on the GamCare website.

Getting help with problem gambling

There are a lot of ways to access help with problem gambling. There's also support available if you have a loved one with a gambling problem.

Gamblers Anonymous Scotland has meetings every day, and is free to attend. The meetings are informal and friendly, and there are currently around 70 meetings held in Scotland every day. Gamblers Anonymous also has a 24-hour helpline you can phone on 0370 050 8881.

If you have a loved one with a gambling problem, support is available from Gam-Anon Scotland. The organisation has supportive, confidential meetings that are separate from Gamblers Anonymous meetings. You can also phone the Gam-Anon 24-hour helpline on 0370 050 8881.

GamCare provides information, advice and support for anyone affected by problem gambling. It operates the National Gambling Helpline, and provides treatment for problem gamblers and their families. You can phone the National Gambling Helpline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, on 0808 8020 133.

If you’re looking for ways to stop yourself from gambling, GAMSTOP allows you to block your access to certain gambling websites and apps.

For advice on gambling as safely as possible, or help reporting a gambling business that’s breaking the law,visit the Gambling Commission website.

If you’re looking for help educating a young person about gambling, or need educational materials for a class or youth group, the Fast Forward Gambling Education Hub has a number of useful resources.

You can also visit your local primary care team for support and information about resources in your local area. Visit Scotland’s Service Directory for information on services near you.

For other help and support, use Scotland's Service Directory to find counselling, mental wellbeing, and money advice services in your area.

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